Dien Rice
November 8, 2022, 04:46 PM
Thanks Glenn,
Another INGENIOUS idea!
(Again - if you're not on Glenn's email list - I encourage you to join... His is one of the few where I do my best to read everything he sends... https://enchantednlp.com )
On this part...
"I Turned A Biz Appointment into a PARTY.
Unconsciously PEOPLE WANT to Work with You If Being Near You is FUN."
This reminds me of the days when I used to "date"... (I'm married now, so haven't "dated" for a while...)
As a young guy, you quickly learn that "desperation" doesn't work!
Neither does begging! :)
(No wonder these "incels" have so many problems... They "reek" of desperation!)
What does work is being "fun" to be around...
When a girl or woman finds you "fun"... She wants to see more of you...
(And it works from the girl's point of view, too!)
So... I think it's the same principle!
Though I hadn't thought of it that way...
Thanks Glenn... Another brain "explosion" you've gifted to us all...
:)
Best wishes,
Dien
P.S. My wife says that out of all the weird people who were attracted to her... I was the "least weird"... I guess that's a compliment... Uhh... Sort of... ;)
One restaurant could have a huge line out of the front, with people waiting and waiting to get in...
Thanks Dien,
Dan Kennedy Taught me how to RENT cars from a Car Dealer
to make a Restaurant Client Look Popular - To People Driving By - from the Road.
ADAPTED.
When I First Started in Marketing I had no office. So I met Prospects in Fancy Restaurants.
How Did I "FAKE" Success?
I Arrived Early.
A - Pre-Paid for my meal and my Guests
B - Lotto Tipped all the Waiters and Waitresses
C - Lotto tipped the Cooks
D - Handed people at nearby Tables a Stake of 10 One Dollar Bills & Lotto Tickets. And Asked Them to TIP The Waitress EVERY TIME I Tipped Mine.
RESULT?
I Turned A Biz Appointment into a PARTY.
Unconsciously PEOPLE WANT to Work with You If Being Near You is FUN.
And Even Though This was my 1st time at this Swanky Restaurant. Since EVERYBODY knew my name - The Client ASSUMED I dined here Frequently.
I Got this idea
From a 400 Million
Dollar Mentor.
He Has a Standing Bet that In Any Restaurant Group
Seated at the same table - HE GETS THE BILL. Because he is wearing a BESPOKE 5K Suit. And Talks LOUDLY. And Acts Arrogantly.
WHENEVER I meet with people like him - I Arrive Early.
And Short-Circuit what they Expect to Happen. REALLY throws them or a Loop! And you get to TALK 1 on 1 with Any Speaker or GURU you want. (Because they are Curious How You Bolixed up their Gamesmanship.)
(Bespoke is a wacky Word. Had to look it up a while back Just to TALK to a Lady who Sells Bespoke Suits.)
Thanks,
Glenn
Another INGENIOUS idea!
(Again - if you're not on Glenn's email list - I encourage you to join... His is one of the few where I do my best to read everything he sends... https://enchantednlp.com )
On this part...
"I Turned A Biz Appointment into a PARTY.
Unconsciously PEOPLE WANT to Work with You If Being Near You is FUN."
This reminds me of the days when I used to "date"... (I'm married now, so haven't "dated" for a while...)
As a young guy, you quickly learn that "desperation" doesn't work!
Neither does begging! :)
(No wonder these "incels" have so many problems... They "reek" of desperation!)
What does work is being "fun" to be around...
When a girl or woman finds you "fun"... She wants to see more of you...
(And it works from the girl's point of view, too!)
So... I think it's the same principle!
Though I hadn't thought of it that way...
Thanks Glenn... Another brain "explosion" you've gifted to us all...
:)
Best wishes,
Dien
P.S. My wife says that out of all the weird people who were attracted to her... I was the "least weird"... I guess that's a compliment... Uhh... Sort of... ;)
One restaurant could have a huge line out of the front, with people waiting and waiting to get in...
Thanks Dien,
Dan Kennedy Taught me how to RENT cars from a Car Dealer
to make a Restaurant Client Look Popular - To People Driving By - from the Road.
ADAPTED.
When I First Started in Marketing I had no office. So I met Prospects in Fancy Restaurants.
How Did I "FAKE" Success?
I Arrived Early.
A - Pre-Paid for my meal and my Guests
B - Lotto Tipped all the Waiters and Waitresses
C - Lotto tipped the Cooks
D - Handed people at nearby Tables a Stake of 10 One Dollar Bills & Lotto Tickets. And Asked Them to TIP The Waitress EVERY TIME I Tipped Mine.
RESULT?
I Turned A Biz Appointment into a PARTY.
Unconsciously PEOPLE WANT to Work with You If Being Near You is FUN.
And Even Though This was my 1st time at this Swanky Restaurant. Since EVERYBODY knew my name - The Client ASSUMED I dined here Frequently.
I Got this idea
From a 400 Million
Dollar Mentor.
He Has a Standing Bet that In Any Restaurant Group
Seated at the same table - HE GETS THE BILL. Because he is wearing a BESPOKE 5K Suit. And Talks LOUDLY. And Acts Arrogantly.
WHENEVER I meet with people like him - I Arrive Early.
And Short-Circuit what they Expect to Happen. REALLY throws them or a Loop! And you get to TALK 1 on 1 with Any Speaker or GURU you want. (Because they are Curious How You Bolixed up their Gamesmanship.)
(Bespoke is a wacky Word. Had to look it up a while back Just to TALK to a Lady who Sells Bespoke Suits.)
Thanks,
Glenn