Read EVERY Self-Help Book on Earth in 30 Seconds
The title of this thread is the title of an article I've plucked from Laissez Faire Today. LFT is an Agora Financial publication. You may have read about AF on these pages.
I am NOT associated with them and I subscribe to LFT because it is free. If I had to pay I wouldn't. Personal reasons so I'll leave it there. The Managing editor is Chris Campbell who, to me, is an interesting person and gives credit where credit is due. He looks for stuff that'll help all of us and writes about it. Because I thought his above titled article was damned good and actually covered the self help universe, I extracted the 7 lessons he extracted from the HighExistence blog (never heard of it till I read the article). Here is my extraction: Read EVERY Self-Help Book on Earth in 30 Seconds For your self-enhancing pleasure, courtesy of TheUnknown at the HighExistence blog, we present to you seven universal life lessons within nearly every self-help book on Earth. 1.] Control your mind. Control your Life. 2.] Focus your thoughts. Control your actions. Think. Do. Pursue. 3.] Practice every day. Reprogram your mind. 4.] Successful daily habits. Have a system. Define what you want. Plan. 5.] Take time. Don’t give up. 6.] Blame nothing. No excuses. 7.] Don’t be an *******. Be kind. There you have it. You’ve pretty much read 99% of all self-help books on Earth. end of extraction... As he says, there you have it. What do you think? Tom |
Joe Sugarman Told Me That *Focus* & *Control* Are Important
Thanks Tom,
Great Work. Years ago I called Joe in his home in Hawaii to buy some Batman Credit Cards. But he needed them for a project. Anyway. During our chat Joe Said, "What I did in JS&A is no longer possible. The world and the culture or economy are changing too fast." And he told me about a Big Seminar he had put on that made a lot of munny. He tried the Same Thing a Month Later and it was a FIASCO. Joe believes he waited TOO LONG. (YIKES - 30 days is too Long?) And he made the mistake of trying to use the SAME offer and the Same Marketing and Benefits and Venue. NOT UNDERSTANDING. That the people and the culture had SHIFTED Under his feet - and that offer No longer was appealing! So. Joe would Agree with the 1st two items on your list TOM. You Gotta FOCUS your mind and adapt what you do to what is happening TODAY. And - For Sure - You Gotta CONTROL - not only your thoughts. But CONTROL whatever deal or project you work on. Thanks, Glenn Osborn Rentamentor Group |
Control The Moolah - A Story from my New *Flirt & Grow Richer* Book
Thanks Tom,
"How James Uses LOTTO TICKET Flirting to Create Leads For His Home Based Business." While helping a Coaching Client Close Sales for a Real Estate Business Opportunity - we got Referred to James. James works construction - ALL NIGHT. Hates it. But has a tiny side business - Drywall Repair. But he only had 7 home owner clients. ***We Gave James a POP QUIZ. "Please go out and Flirt with a Waitress or cashier and say, Thank you for helping me today. SMILE. And give her an Instant Scratch Off LOTTO Ticket." "Then email me about what happens." James Passed The QUIZ! He reported that After he gave LOTTO Tickets to the cashier at the convenience store where he gets gas every day... The lady Cashier start SMILING and Laughing. And even gave him a F-r-e-e Donut. ------------- ------------- James then told me he DISLIKED working for others. Wants a Stream of Income. Wanted to work from home. ------------- ------------- So We Put Our Heads Together and Created a Referral System based on Flirting and Lotto Tickets. Let's Call it - "James' LOTTO Ticket Flirt-For-Sheet-Rock-Repair-Jobs Referral System" Here are the 3 parts of the "Lotto Flirt Bunny Making Referral System" we helped James Create and Flirt Test. PART I - Every Day James Gets a Handful of 1.00 Instant Scratch Off LOTTO Tickets. And Thank Rewards his waitress, Gas Station Attendant, BarMaid, Cashier or Fast food Drive Thru Person. PART II - James Showed Each Person What he Does. Before and After holes in the walls of homes. Photos of his finished Repair work. (EDITORS NOTE - Within 48 hrs - the "donut lady" had referred him 3 prospects. 1 didn't order. Job #2 he fixed a hole left by a plumber. Job #3 - He repair a hole where 2 boys rammed their heads thru the wall. These 2 jobs grossed a bit over 800 bucks.) PART III - So Next We Got James to Create an 8 by 10 Page. So he can GIVE A Flyer Away to all the women he LOTTO TIPS. Side A - Before and After Wall Repair photos Side B - Headline - "Proof I'm Not a Crook" - and a list of his past home owner clients and their phone #'s - so prospects could call and check. THE PLAN - Wherever James went he Flirt Tips Waitresses and Barmaids and Cashiers who SEE, Talk to and Can Find Home owners with HOLES in their Walls. Worked Good until James Hurt his ankle. Lost his construction job - until he heals up. Can walk without a cane. And was Forced to Sell each Sheet Rock Repair job to his Uncle or Do-It-Yourselfer. THE PROBLEM - JAMES reported that one of the guys he s*old a 1700.00 Repair job to for 200.00 - Mucked it up. And James had to go redo all the work. We asked a few questions: A - The Positive side of your injury is you are Forced to work on your Home Business. And Get Others to do the work, right? (James admitted that was true.) B - Why didn't you send the guy back to Fix his Patch Job? (James said the Guy who paid him 200.00 already had the 1700.00 and wouldn't come back and fix his shoddy work.) C - We asked, "What if YOU CONTROL the 1700.00 bucks? Just Suppose You Tell the home owner to PAY YOU and You will make sure the work gets done? What do you think of that idea? THE LATEST News From James... I - He is sending Lotto ticket Thank you notes to the 2 people he met in Church - who are referring him Repair job - after repair job. II - James now CONTROLS the moolah for each project. III - And in a very short time the size of his Home Repair projects has JUMPED. James tells me he has gotten referred to some folks who host PARTIES. And each party creates HOLES in the walls of their houses. So he is getting Repeat work from more affluent Home Owners who seem to be hosting Pretty Wild Parties. If holes get knocked in the walls that party is Wilder than Any I've attended. Perhaps CONTROL is the Secret to James Success. a - He Controls the LOTTO tip leads and referrals. b - He Controls the munny. c - He Controls and takes Responsibility for all the work done by people He hires. Thus he Also Controls The COMMUNICATION with home owners. Thanks, Glenn |
Re: Read EVERY Self-Help Book on Earth in 30 Seconds
Glenn,
Thanks for your posts. Good stuff to say the least. Control the dough is always a GREAT way of doing business even if you aren't a general contractor. When I did seminars in the 90's people paid me and I paid the seminar host. This was the person that did all the advertising and attendee hustling. May sound strange but that was how it worked. Today it would probably be the other way around. The host would probably pay me and worry about the gate. Regardless control the dough and you can fly low or high depending on what you're telling the IRS :D . The only one responsible for you ain't the government or some social justice warrior. It is YOU so why not learn the tricks of the trade and apply them, right? |
*Flirt & Get Richer* Combines Ideas from 5 Mentors
Thanks Tom,
#1 - The Flirt Tip idea comes from my friend Bryan Redfield, author of "Bartenders Guide on how to Pick up Women". Who taught me how to 1.00 Bill tip to get great service. Mastermind testing proved Lotto tickets to be easier For men and women to give Away than Cash. #2 - Napoleon Hills interviews with the worlds richest men showed They all went the Extra mile AND practiced tbe Golden Rule. With Money. Moolah. Dinero. #3 - Bill Myers Taught us to create information products based on what we DO As a hobby. Thus we were able to chunk the Golden Rule Concept down and apply it to help clients make money. Especially after interviewing a #1 car salesman and a dr to dr foreclosed Home buyer/investor who used Lotto tickets to break the ice with strangers. #4- Then we observed 426 million mentor Walter Hailey using the idea. And then a 27 million Chiropractor. #5- Plus Gary Halbert - who famously mailed many tens of thousands of 1.00 Bill Letters. Eventually We started to combine Flirting and Selling regularly. Constantly. Habitually. Waitresses and waiters are under paid And bored. And... Weirdly enough. Flirting to create enough trust to get a date. And Flirting to create enough trust to give away Money. Or make a sale. All start out exactly the same. Without Trust and Rapport we are convincex nothing Positive happens btwn people. Thanks, Glenn |
Susan Gives Away $1 LOTTO Ticket & Gets a HUG and $10 Back
Thanks Tom,
#1 on Your List was "Control of your mind. Control of your life." Below is Proof you can Get More Control over your life. Yet Be Out-of-Control at the same time. Susan Got CONTROL of her Tail-Gater. But had NO CLUE she was gonna get Hugged by a total Stranger - later! --------- Lotto Ticket Flirt Tipping for Profit is Totally UN-Predictable without Directions. Which is THE REASON WHY I'm writing books about it. Funny Flirt Stories. And with Step by Step Directions on what to say and what to do. A General FLIRT TIP Directions Suggestion: Always give a "Reason Why" you are Giving Away Money. Susan came up with a Clever "Reason Why." ==== ==== Susan gave us her Permission to Share her Innovative LOTTO Tipping Story. Ok, I wasn't going to tell anyone this but my neighbor was with me...sooo, no secret. Where I live tail-gaiting in traffic is a career choice, must be because so many people do it. Anyway, usually I bitch and moan and sometimes mouth words that would make a drunken sailor blush, but not this time. Instead, stopped at a stop light with Mr. "Mine is Bigger Than Yours" pickup (you know the type - big rig tires on a Honda) right on my bumper. Told my neighbor "watch this", and grabbed my lotto ticket from the center console and got out the car. Of course my neighbor has dinner plates for eyes, mouth gaping like a landed fish. I walked back to Mr. MIBTY, climbed on the running pipe on his truck, tapped on the window and said "Hey! Thanks for reminding me that I hadn't paid my tithes this month. Here you go!" and gave him the lotto ticket. The went back to my car and drove off just as the light changed. Looked in my rearview mirror and he was still at the light, cars honking behind him. When I pulled off at my exit, he was behind me (safe distance, not on my bumper) and waving with a stupid grin on his face. Maybe, just maybe, he got the message so the next driver will not be subject to it. -------- THE REST OF SUSAN'S Story came in Email #2 - First, here's the update to Mr. MIBTY. I went to Starbuck's and guess who stood in front of me? Yep. When he saw me, he rushed over and hugged me like I was long lost relative and began talking about "safe driving, and he was on his way to pick up his wife and newborn, blah, blah blah". Anyway, he gave me a $10 scratch ticket, paid for my coffee and hugged me when he left. Say what??! Jeez, I hope not to run into him again, it will be hours of baby pictures:) Second, Susan sounds like a good name. Thank You Susan, Glenn P.S. - I ask everyone who sends me a LOTTO Tip story what new name they want to be called. Cuz I change everybody's name and location. Plus get their Written PERMISSION to Share their Testimonial. |
How I Saved 50.00 Flirt Tipping w/Paper Roses
Thanks Tom,
Your List talks about "Practicing every day" and "Habits." After Interviewing a few 100 self made millionaire entrepreneurs and helping many of them Make More Money. I discovered Most of them were Giving money away in various ways. Often Big WADS of moolah. At that time I didn't have Big Piles of money to give away. But I could afford to give away Money in the form of Instant Lotto tickets. 1.00 bills. Paper Roses which cost about 50 cents each. And cashiers and clerks and waiters and Waitresses DO NOT Get Thanked, Rewarded and Tipped very often. ESPECIALLY the Way we do it. At the Start and all thru the meal. So it's a WIN - WIN. Lastly I seem to have a Personality QUIRK. I get Bored Easily. FLIRT TIPPING is the answer to Boredom. BECAUSE you never know what is going to happen. Except it's gonna Be GOOD. And It will be POSITIVE. For Example: Here's what happened when we Walked into a Vitamin Store with my Dad a few years ago. ***How I Saved 50.00 w/One Paper Rose Vitamin World mails me 25% off Discount coupons. But I forgot to bring it. I Smiled/Thanked/Rewarded the sales lady for helping me find a bag full of vitamins my Father was out of. And she fished a copy of the 25% off offer out of her drawer and took 25% off my 230.00 Vitamin order. Since each Red Paper Rose at NapkinRose.com costs about 50 cents each I got 100Times my cost back! Glenn |
LOTTO Ticket Flirt Gossip Leads to Ph # and a Date
Thanks Tom,
Because we are in the HABIT of Giving Away Instant Scratch Off LOTTO Tickets. And write Ezine Case Studies and Funny stories about it. Plus share Client Results with Flirt Tipping in our Daily Ezine. Ezine readers Email Me THEIR Results. And Almost Always Give Me Their Permission to SHARE their LOTTO ticket Flirt story with others. As Greg did - below. ======= ======= How a Young Realtor LOTTO Flirt Tips To Get Ph#'s and Dates With Pretty Women Greg told me this story yesterday. Beautiful Latino Gas Station Clerk. Lotto ticket #1 - And Greg says, "What will you do when you WIN?" Day Two - LOTTO Ticket and he asks, "What are you going to BUY First If You WIN? Day Three - LOTTO Ticket and says, "Where are you going to spend all your WINNINGS? Greg says Eve tells him she has a son. She is 26 yrs Old. Divorced. Bad Boyfriend she just dumped - He wanted her to dance at a Strip Club. Greg Finds out Eve Likes to Rock Climb. ====== ====== RESULT - Soon Eve is touching Greg on the arm. Shortly after the arm touches. Eve gives him her phone #. It took Greg Five Visits and 5 LOTTO Tickets to Create Deep Enough trust btwn himself and Eve so she felt comfy enough to share her home phone # and ASK him to call her. Thanks, Glenn |
How To FLIRT TIP So You NEVER Wait In Line - Case Study
Thanks Tom,
Mostly when you start practicing Flirt Tipping - you can't expect to made quick moolah. You simply Flirt Tip for fun. And perhaps to Improve the level of service. And often a side effect of better Service is speedier service. For Example: Donald is always in a hurry. So what HE Uses Flirt Tipping for is NOT Money. He FLIRT TIPS to Save time. As he did in this Success Story he told me by phone. ------------- The Promise of Getting A Paper Rose Saves Me 1/2 an Hour Waiting in Line I rolled up at 4pm at one of the new SuperFood Stores. The one I was at had 25 checkout lines all lined up with 10 or 15 shopper carts each. I found a line with ONE Cart. But the woman in front of me unloading her groceries said, “This clerk is quitting after me.” And she was Right. The light was off. And the sign that said “Closed” was up. But I decided to Test The Power of the Flower! And slowly fashioned a beautiful RED ROSE right in front of Helga – the check-out lady. I held it up high and Smiled a bunch of times While I was puffing out the petals. And Waved the flower a bit as I created the green leaf at the bottom. MAGIC! Sure enough Helga didn’t Shoo me away. But she did chase off people who tried to line up Behind Me. Thanks, Donald |
Cashier Pulls Out Her Own Discount Card To Help Gary
Thanks Tom,
Empathy is vital in Communications. One Guess Why Cashiers and Clerks and Waitresses WANT to help you when you Smile, Say THANK YOU and REWARD them with a LOTTO Ticket. Times up. Everybody ELSE but you Complains, Bitches, Moans and Whinges! That makes You SPECIAL. Another Retail Store Example: --------- Lotto Ticket Saves me 5.00 At Grocery Store I visited a new grocery store today. Tuesday at 3pm. and it was empty except for me. Anyway – I showed up at the front of the store and got my bread and pizza and blueberry yogurt rung up. The cashier asked me if I was a member of their Discount Club. Luckily I’d already handed Her a 1.00 LOTTO ticket for helping me. So she pulled out her own card and knocked 5.60 off my bill. Gary |
IZZY Gets Her Entire Family to FLIRT TIP Their Waiter
Thanks Tom,
My women Coaching Clients use LOTTO TICKET Flirt Tipping in ways the guys never thunk of. IZZY did this with her family. But Imagine the impact of Adapting IZZY's idea in a Business Situation. Wait. We don't HAVE to Imagine it. We've made munny doing it. --------- Glenn, Took your advice. Went out and bought a bunch of Instant Scratch off LOTTO tickets. Then took the whole clan out to a nice restaurant. 86 year old matriarch Noelle, grouchy Smantha and young Peggy. Plus my 2 cousins just back from 2 weeks camping out in the rain. Gives me the willies. Vacationing in the mud. Yuck! So... STEVEN was our waiter. He never knew what hit him. I started things off. And gave tickets to everybody else. Told them what to do. Each lady told STEVEN, "I want you to have this." A big smile and then handed him a LOTTO ticket. AFTER Steven did some kind of service. We got white wine. Extra bread. Extra cheese. Extra everything. Extra fast. Fantastic service. Learned all about Steven. His entire life. His adventures in New York. I was flabbergasted at what a few LOTTO tickets could do. He even said, "You ladies are spoiling me." Then he handed me his name and # and told me to PLEASE keep him in mind if any jobs came open in my company. He'd LOVE to work for me. LAST thing BEST... STEVEN comes racing out of the kitchen. All Excited. He's won 2 BIG LOTTO ticket chances at the giant 34 million dollar Florida LOTTERY. Here's this handsome man babbling like a kid. It was GREAT. Thanks, IZZY |
Flirt Tipping to Be Nice to a CVS Pharmacy Clerk
Thanks Tom,
One of our Mentors Compares the world to a Dark Movie Theater. He says, "Imagine everyone in the movie theater has there legs stuck out in the dark aisle - to trip you." Question: How do You Avoid getting LINKED with all the JERKS who came before you - in the mind of the Clerk or CockTail Waitress or Cashier? YOU DO SOMETHING ***Nice.*** -------- 3.00 Discount at CVS w/LOTTO ticket I bopped into a new pharmacy today. Got some stuff and took it to the counter at the front of the store. A bottle of water and 4 or 5 bottles. No clerk so I rang the little bell. A brown-haired girl showed up. I Thanked her – Handed her a Lotto Ticket for “Interrupting her work to help me.” She told me if I took an application to sign up for the Discount Club – I’d get 3.00 off. So I did. And threw the application away in the trash. I’ll trade 1.00 to make 3.00 all day long. |
Flirt Tipping at His GirlFriends Birthday Party - YIKES
Thanks Tom,
Flirt Tipping for Extra C*ash is Unpredictable unless you Follow the Step by Step DIRECTIONS in Section 3 of my "Flirt & Grow Richer" book. But Before you Jump into the FLIRT Moolah Making Systems you should get in some Flirt Tipping Practice. Like anything. Practice makes perfect. Except with FLIRT TIPPING - you really can't go wrong. Or even make a Serious Mistake. It's all Fun. For Example: This guy - Glen - with one N. DOLLAR BILL - Flirt Tipped the Waitress BEFORE and DURING and AFTER the meal. And did it at his Girl Friends Birthday Party. Got a SURPRISE Result. ---------- Greetings Glenn, Last night was the girlfreinds birthday (50). We went to Red Lobster in Kalamazoo for dinner to celebrate the event. I am one who drinks a lot of water with my meal. Normally 4 to 5 glasses. We got our table and the waitress ask for drink orders. I always order 2 glasses of water to start. When she brought the drinks I gave her a dollar. She smiled and took it. She brought us those hot rolls that Red Lobster is famous for and I gave her another dollar. She smiled and took the dollar. The rolls were wolfed down in a hurry. Our waitress went by and noticed the empty roll basket. She delivered the other peoples food and brought us more rolls. Again, another dollar and a big grin. Between numerous glasses water and lots of rolls I gave her 8 dollars. Every time a smile and a chuckle. The time came for desert. She gave us the rundown of every desert on the entire menu. When she brought our deserts, I received a double portion of Plunge Cake and 2 scoops of ice cream. And a huge smile. Again, I gave her a dollar. My girfriend and the other couple were in the restroom when our waitress brought the bill. No charge on the bill for our deserts and she slipped me a small piece ofpaper with her name and telephone number. Hell, I am old enough to be her father. But then again, variety is the spice of life. I love this stuff ! Thanks much! Glen P.S. Glenn (you spell your name with one to many N's) :) |
Teacher Impresses His Wife w/Flirt LOTTO Tipping
Thanks Tom,
I have a mentor who has a motto: "The more people I help the luckier I get." I Believe This is true. The Question is - How do lots and lots of people help tons of others without going to a Great Deal of Effort and Expense. FLIRT Tipping with... 1.00 Bills and 1.00 Coins and 1.00 LOTTO Tickets is one proven way to help others as you go thru your day. In my own Experience and with Clients and others we give ideas to the LOTTO TICKET FLIRTING and other munny giveaways has a Give-To-Get Magic to it. So you Really Can Make Yourself Luckier. But you gotta have Faith. Patience. Stay Positive. Because Usually Good Luck --in the form of Extra Dinero-- from LOTTO Tip Flirting does not happen right away. Unless you employ a proven System. ======== ======== Dear Glenn, WOW! I tried your suggestion with the dollar bill tipping at a restaurant and was very surprised at thereaction. I decided to take my wife out to lunch at a local restaurant catering to the average suburban type. Good food, portions, etc. When the server brought our water, I thanked her for her smile and gave her a dollar. She looked at me with a questioning look but said thank you. When she brought our bread and salads, I tipped her again and mentioned that was doing a good job with all the customers around. She said thank you very much and immediately went and talked to her co-worker. I couldn''t hear what they were saying, but they both looked over and then looked at each other with mouths open. Ha! Next the server brought us a free refill on our drinks in GIANT glasses! I tipped her again mentioning how much we appreciated the service. She almost bustedout of her uniform with the smiling. The manager next came by to see what was up. He asked if we were enjoying ourselves. We said yes, greatly. I was thinking that maybe I shouldn''t try to tip the manager, but decided, what the heck, and tried anyway. He didn't take the money, but seemed very happy that we were pleased. Our server AND her co-worker came by to give us more drinks and bread. I tipped them both! They seemed like little schoolgirls walking away laughing. As we were checking out, our server came up, put her hand on my forearm and said that we were some of the nicest people she had ever served. We thanked her and gave her FIVE dollars as we were leaving. The eleven bucks extra it cost us was a small price to pay for such a great time. I never had so much fun going out to eat! You have my permission to use any of this letter in a way you see fit. Thanks, Glenn. Davis |
Fiona Rules A Restaurant w/Flirt Tipping PIZZAZZ
Thanks Tom,
FOCUS is Important. You know how everyone today is SO BUSY texting and Answering their Cell Phone that they DO NOT FOCUS on the folks standing in front of them? Even Sales people Will answer the phone while a customer (You & Me) is standing at their counter wanting to Buy. So. A the Question is - HOW Do We Persuade Folks to FOCUS on Us? FEEL Good About Spending Time with us? APPRECIATE us. EVEN BEFORE We Start TALKING BUSINESS? ******** Let's Consult MARK TWAIN - the famous American Speaker and Writer. In the days Before The Internet Mark Twain did speaking tours. STEP I - A white haired man would step to the podium and Endorse, Applaud and Tell How GREAT Mark Twain was. STEP II - Then the man would walk off the stage. STEP III - The SAME White Haired Man Would then Walk Back on Stage and Begin His SPEECH. Mark would say, "I'd like to THANK the Distinguished Gentleman from Kentucky for that amazing Introduction..." And PAUSE. Wait. In Silence without Speaking. ***RESULT?*** a - At first the audience is confused. b - Then a few chuckles c - Then laughter Sweeps the room as EVERYONE Realizes that Mark Twain has had the SHEER GALL to Introduce himself in GLOWING TERMS. The Audience is FOCUSED! The Audience is SMILING and in a Positive Mood. The Audience is In Rapport and READY TO LISTEN. Mark Twain Has CREDENTIALED Himself as someone IMPORTANT. Because The Audience Recognizes that THEY Don't Know how to DO what Mark Twain just did - on Stage. Ok. (EDITORS NOTE - You May be Asking Yourself, "SELF, What Does Mark Twain Have to do with FLIRT TIPPING For Fun and Profit?) GREAT QUESTION. Thanks for asking. JUST Suppose You Invite an IMPORTANT Prospect for Lunch? And Arrive Early for your meeting at the Restaurant. (Out in the Country we call What we're About to SHARE with You ***PRIMING THE PUMP.*** In The Good Old Days of Hand Dug Wells. In Order to Get The Hand Pump to Pump Water OUT of the Well You Had to POUR WATER INTO The Well - First.) #1 - You Flirt Tip The Manager #2 - You Flirt Tip the Concierge. #3 - You Flirt Tip The Waitresses and The Waiters and the Bell Boys and the Doormen. #4 - You Give LOTTO Tickets to The Cooks and the Chef's helpers. Thank them for their hard work. #5 - When Your VIP Guest Arrives You Greet Him/her. Sit Down and the Waitress Brings your menus. And You SMILE - She GRINS Back as you (Cuz She KNOWS what is coming) Thank Her and hand her ANOTHER Lotto ticket. And another. And another. All through the meal. More and more waiters and bus boys and managers show up at your table to be of Service. AND JOIN THE FUN. QUESTION #1 - Do You Think This FOCUSES Your Guest on YOU? Q #2 - Do You Agree He or She Will Be CURIOUS? Q #3 - When the manager comes over to say, "Hi" and other diners start LOOKING over at Your Table Because You are The Center of Attention.... Q #4 - Do You Think You Seem Suddenly More IMPORTANT to your Prospect? Q #5 - Might You Have Credentialed Yourself In His Mind? AND Created Rapport so They are Willing to LISTEN to and RESPECT You? A FINAL QUESTION for ya. Do you think all of the above can happen BY ACCIDENT? Well. You Might Be Surprised. Fiona Added her Personal Female Flirt PIZZAZZ on top of the Flirt Tipping Idea. And Created Some CHAOS. Because she didn't have an Out-come Planned. And Didn't Prime the Pump by alerting the Restaurant Staff - ahead of time. ============= Fionas Testimonial - Glenn, I tested the Dollar Bill Flirt Tipping while going out to dinner with some friends. It was simply amazing. My friends & the waiter were looking at me like I was on crack. I gave out the dollar tip and a "Thank You" for everything the waiter did, take our order, bring drinks, refill drinks. Other waiters came out to help us during the meal. Towards the end of our meal the waiters were all hovering over our table like vultures. This really pissed off the other tables, they were complaining to the manager. This Flirt Tipping stuff is pretty powerful. You have my permission to share this success - anonymously - with others and use it in your marketing. Fiona |
Mike Uses Flirt Tipping to Get VIP Treatment in Nightclub
Thanks Tom,
All The Experts agree that having a Plan is good. But sometimes you have to WAIT a While before you DECIDE what to do. What ideas you INCLUDE in your Plan. Let me Explain. I recently watched John Cleese - of *Monty Python* Fame - Give a Talk to Google employees. He Quoted a Scientific Study of Genius (Award Winning) Biz Owner Architects VS Average Architects. The Study author had interviewed Members of both groups and Found 2 BIG DIFFERENCES. The Genius Group Differed in Only 2 Areas... #1 - They Spend a LOT of their time PLAYING. Doing all kinds of Silly, Stupid Stuff that has NOTHING to do with their jobs. #2 - They Delayed and Procrastinated and dragged their Heels - as long as possible - BEFORE MAKING A DECISION. John Cleese (Does this himself) and says he believes All New Ideas are discovered as a Result of Spending Quiet Time - to allow your Unconscious to Push NEW THOUGHTS to the surface of your mind. PLAY facilitates the Unconscious. AND Because Most People QUICKLY come to a decision - Because NOT Deciding. Staying in LIMBO - is STRESSFUL. Most folks make Decision Way BEFORE the deadline. Thus freezing out any Possibility of Finding a New or Different Idea that might Be Innovative and Creative and GREAT. Just A Suggestion. But what do you think about PLAYING with the GOLDEN RULE OF RECIPROCITY Law of Success that Napoleon Hill talks about? Increasing Your Pay-it-Forward PLAY TIME By Flirt Tipping Your Waitress or Waiter? ========= Mike At The NightClub - Glenn: Went to a nightclub with a friend I hadn't seen in a VERY long time. We managed to get a seat (lucky - the place was packed). Took ages for the first drinks to arrive. Waitress brings them over. Tip her $1. The corners of her mouth turn up slightly. When the glasses were empty we signaled for her again. Got a refill. $1 tip. A grin. Didn't have to signal her again. As soon as the glasses were empty she was over to us. Another? Yep. $1 tip. Big smile :o) Next round... she was over before we had finished out drinks. Another $1. Then, it was like which of the waitresses was going to be the one to serve us. Never had such good service in that place. Ever. Never had to wait for a drink or to be served. Other people had to wait. As for cost? Who cares? Nightclub prices are inflated anyway. What's an extra 50 cents per drink to be treated like royalty? Was well worth it. Also, You can use this in any of your marketing - Glenn. Cheers! Mike |
Edgar Says, "My Waitress THANKED ME for a Great New Experience."
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426 Million Mentor, Walter Hailey, taught me that EMPATHY is the key to communication and Successful Sales. Just Suppose You Got Bored with Eating out at Restaurants. With Meals at home too. What could you do? Here's what I DO Sometimes. I order my meal BACKWARDS. Yup. Dessert. Soup. Salad. Entree. Great fun for me. And - I discovered - FUN for my waiter or waitress too. That is when I had a EUREKA MOMENT. Waiters and Waitresses and Clerks and Cocktail Waitresses and Wal-Mart Cashiers and Deli Counter clerks are BORED BORED BORED - out of their minds. So if you are able to MAKE THEIR BORING Job FUN Different A Little WEIRD. They Really, Really Appreciate You. Don't Take Just MY Word. Listen to Edgar. ========= ========= Dear Glenn, I am really impressed by all the incredible one-of-a-kind marketing info that you send to your e-mail list. I am pretty familiar with many "effective" techniques, but yours are truly top-notch. On a even better note, as an aside, my wife is pregnant with our first! We are so excited...the first grandchild for both of our parents too! Anyway...here is my dollar bill tipping testimonial: We were at the beach for Memorial Day and we were having a grand time all day Friday, partying and whooping it up. We decided to do the dollar bill tipping technique for the first time at a great restuarant right on the ocean. We sat down and the waitress immediately brought us water and freshened our beverage order. Boom, out comes a dollar and a big smile for her. She said, "excuse me sir, you can tip me at the end." I told her we had lived in Mustique for a short time and this is how they tip there, during the meal. She said, okay, reluctantly and smiled awkwardly, almost embarrased and took the dollar. We all chuckled. Then back come the drinks and out comes another dollar. A sly, flirty smile for me. Back for the order...another dollar and a bigger smile. Bread...dollar...smile. ANOTHER waitress brings more silverware...she is handed a dollar with a thank you and she replies, "I heard about you" with a big smile. Another guy brings a napkin, is given a dollar and he responds with, "for me?" I said "yes" and "thank you" and he almost lost his eyeballs through his head and says "thanks"--it was almost like he had never seen a dollar. The evening progressed like this and after getting the bill for about $100 we figured we tipped about $20 total. As we were leaving, our waitress pulled me aside and said, THANK YOU for a great new experience." It was a great night had by all. Feel free to use this in your material. Edgar |
Garret Says, "What Fun! My Waiter Wouldn't Shut Up"
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Women I share FLIRT TIPPING with start laughing when I tell them, "I know Flirting with Hunky Men is a chore. But Buck up. The more Flirt Practice you get with Handsome Waiters and Bartenders - the better you get at Persuading guys to buy your stuff. Practice Does help. Many people are not used to Chatting while in Deep Rapport. Plainly Stated: FLIRT TIPPING is a ShortCut to Rapport. Said Differently: FLIRT TIPPING Creates Quick Trust. THIS MEANS. Total Strangers will TALK Your Head Off unless you LEAD the Conversation. FOR EXAMPLE - This recently happened to me when I was LOTTO Tipping but not paying enough attention. a - Dinner with a friend b - Lotto ticket when Gail brought water c - Lotto ticket when she handed me a menu d - Lotto ticket when She brought our food e - Lotto ticket with the bill. My Dinner partner - was ALSO in deep Rapport with our waitress - due to all my Lotto Tipping. UNBELIEVABLE. I got treated to a Fascinating discussion of HIGH or LOW placed computer keyboards as they relate to her risk of Carpel tunnel at her OLD Job. And Gails New Full time job at Data Entry - Medical Billing for a local Hospital. THEN we were off to the races on an Equally Exciting Subject! Which computer keyboard Gail likes best. To Shut this down I Had to Wave Both Arms over my head like a Baseball Umpire. Just to Get Gail's Attention. And Bluntly say, "I want to go home. It's getting late. Could we have the bill, please?" HOW Do You AVOID this Side Effect of FLIRT TIPPING? ***You Lead the Conversation where YOU Want to go. ***You ASK the waitress what you want to know. ***What I Usually ask towards the end of the meal After FLIRT Through a couple courses is, "Have you met any Local Small Business Owners Recently? ***Do You remember their name or business name? Maybe I can call them up and the two of us come Back HERE to visit You for lunch." JUST WARNING You. ***You aren't in Kansas Anymore, Dorothy!*** One FLIRT TIPPING Effect - can be like sitting on a Psychologists couch listening to your Waitress or any friend at the table - (while you Flirt tip) talk and talk and talk. UNLESS You Take command. LEAD. Another Example from a Client - =========== =========== Hey, I was darn hungry today - so the little lady and I decided to dine at one of those chain steakhouses with the country & western decor. ""Get along little doggies!!!"" Anyway our waiter, Chet, comes over and asks us what we would like to drink. I order the iced tea and the little lady orders water with lemon. Let the fun begin!! Chet brings out the drinks and sets them in front of us. I smile and promptly hand him a $1 bill. Bam! He looks at me like I am a nut-job or something! HA HA HA! I smile back at him. He pauses and finally replies ""Th-thanks!"" I can barely contain my laughter! The little lady is starting to laugh as well! We manage to keep our composure and he moves on. This is a BLAST! A few moments later he brings us some bread and I sense his mood is elevated. (The bread sucked by the way.) I give him another $1 bill. WHAM! I could have knocked him over with a feather. Now he gives me another weird look and then a broad smile. I smile back and he says ""Thank you, Sir."" This scenario plays out throughout the meal. This Flirt stuff works! How do I know? I asked this guy a simple question about how long he has worked at the restaurant and he would not shut up. I soon learned he is to wed soon, he owns 4 dogs, a cat, he just moved from Florida, etc., etc, etc. (This is rapport ** correct?) I think I had his whole life story for the last 5 years. This guy seemed very shy as well - I noticed that he did not initiate a conversation with any other patrons in the restaurant except for what they wanted to order. But he went out of his way to talk to me. Furthermore, rarely does anyone call me ""sir"", especially by someone about 10 years younger than me. (I''m 32). Our service was great. I even tipped the lady who brought out the food for our waiter. ""Well, thank you so much!"" she exclaimed after a moment of stunned silence. I think I made her day. Don''t tell my fiance this, but she was quite a ""hottie"". What fun!!! I think I spent 8-9 dollars in tips overall. It was worth every penny. Thanks, Garrett |
Helen-The-Realtor Gets 10% Discount For 12 Friends
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Helen had a plan. And she was prepared. AND EXPECTED to get Wonderful Results. Glenn ======== ======== Hey Glenn, Well, as I told you in my previous email, it looked like it was going to be a long wait at the restaurant. But with the ***thank your card strategy*** to the hostess it took all of 5 min. for us to get the table. My friend who was standing next to me, didn't see what I was writing, but saw that I had given the card to the receptionist, and was intensely curious as to what I had done when we got the table so fast. Smiling, I told her I would show her later in the evening. When we were seated, I purposely took the chair closest to the walkway. When the waiter came (we lucked out and got a good looking guy) we all ordered. When he returned I made eye contact with him and gave him my order. He gave me good eye contact back and took me as the one in charge of the table. We all chose seperate checks, which you could see somewhat bothered him because he would have to do 12 different totals instead of one. I slipped out ***a dollar*** from my purse and gave it to him when my friends were finishing up their orders. I told him thank you. We continued with our chatting while waiting for our meals. He came right back with our breadsticks and salad. (Another dollar). Then he was back again within 5 min. letting us know that our meals were cooking and that they should be out shortly. Now remember this restaurant was full, every table was full. He also refilled a few drinks. I was having a lot of fun. I was visiting with friends I hadn't seen in years, and was getting great service for us with just a few little tricks I learned from you. A few minutes later, he walked past again and smiled at me. Just me. I knew then that the Flirt Tips were working. Our food was done and he brought it out along with a few other guys. It was piping hot and was delicious. When he was done setting the food out, I gave him another dollar and thanked him again for his top notch service. The evening went great. The girls commented on how attentive he was, all the while never noticing that I had given him a few dollars during the meal. When the meal was over, he brought back our tickets...all 12 of them. I paid with my credit card, so I put it in the pouch along with a $5 bill. I also decided to write a quick thank you note. When he brought back our receipts, he had given our table a 10% discount. (I have no idea what for, but accepted it). I took you advice from another free e- zine...(the dollar tipping) and thought the evening was a huge success. I would love to try more of these ideas and give you feedback if you will let me. Oh, the friend that was so curious as to what I had given the hostess called me up the next evening and begged me to tell her what I had said to get such fast service. I told her that it was the thank you card. She was surprised that was what it was, and that it had worked so well. I told her that she was there front and center to see it happen before her eyes. So now she is a believer as well as myself. You may use this for your testimonials if you would like. Just do not use my last name. Thanks. Helen |
***KING Of Las Vegas*** - Flirt Tip Testimonial
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Just Suppose you looked at a few dozen FLIRT TIPPING Testimonials and Stories - all in one place. Like in a book. Do You Know what a Rorschach Test is? You show folks ink blots and they TELL you what each one reminds them of. Well. We've been Collecting FLIRT TIPPING TESTIMONIALS for years. And it's clear to me that each Testimonial can tell you Quite a bit about the writer. For Example: Will--from-Las Vegas LOVES ATTENTION. Will Told me that When he walks into a room full of people he WANTS ATTENTION. He ENJOYS having everyone look at him. And that is what Will LIKES BEST about FLIRT TIPPING. His Goal is POSITIVE Energy and Grabbing ATTENTION. Check out his FLIRT TIPPING Results - =========== =========== Dear Glenn, Today I did another test. I took my wife's sister out for her birthday. I don't really like her… to tell you the truth… I think she's a @*#%&!… Whatever. But… This looked like the perfect time to test out the tip technique. 5 of us sat down (my wife, me, her sister, our brother-in-law, and their 18 year old daughter). As everyone went to the buffet, my wife asked the waitress to bring us a birthday cake later for her sister. The restaurant was busy… the waitress was carrying tons of dishes… she gave my wife this leer… this loooong "why are you asking me this sh*t" LEER… "Sure thing" came out of the waitress's mouth. I told my wife to go get her food… "I will handle everything". When the waitress came back with our drinks… I reached into my pants pocket… the front one that sometimes the inner pocket folds and you can't get any damn thing out of it… and I gave her one-dollar. She looks at me funny. Shakes her head back and forth… then walks on. Now we all are sitting at the table. A large one… with other tables right up next to us… you have to be careful when you get up or you would bump into someone while they are eating. The waitress comes to get an empty plate… I give her one-dollar. She now looks at me in my eyes… then walks on. The waitress returns… pours drinks for the table… I give her one-dollar. She starts the giggle… a huge smile comes up on her face… then walks on. Now a new waitress walks by… she pours us more drinks. I give her one-dollar. She starts to giggle… then she walks on. Another waitress comes by… pours our drinks… I give out the old trusty dollar… she starts to giggle… then she walks on. Now… we can't take more than two swallows before a waitress is pouring us drinks… I'm still handing out the good old dollar. I look around our table… looking at the other tables. Glasses waiting for someone to fill them… like being lost out in the desert… glasses that just sit there… waiting for a waitress… "Do you need another drink?" Sure… and I give out another dollar. As I watch her pass up the other tables… Soon the 18 year old daughter looks at me and asks… "why don't you give me a tip?" Then her mother, my wife's sister says "you have already given out 4 dollars… are you rich or something?" I tell her "I'm just testing an idea"… then our glasses are filled once again… Her birthday cake came with every waitress (6 in all) singing happy birthday. All service stopped in the place. Everyone was looking at our table while we sang. They all (the waitresses) looked at me and started giggling. I smiled back… As we got up to leave… all the waitresses formed a line to say goodbye. I've been coming to this restaurant for one year now… I've never seen that! My sister in law tells me it's the best time she every had at a restaurant here in Las Vegas… everyone in Vegas is so jaded. Everyone looks at me like I'm a KING… King Will… King of Las Vegas… Now listen to this… All I spent tipping was… SEVEN DOLLARS!!!!! Seven dollars to be the King of Las Vegas. Will |
Re: Read EVERY Self-Help Book on Earth in 30 Seconds
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I think you just saved me probably about 5 years of reading time! ;) It's true, a lot of "self help" stuff is interchangeable... I used to read a lot of it, though, and it did help me (it did help with motivation!). I think if you can put a new "angle" on it all... You can write your own "self help" book... Like maybe... "7 secrets of the insurance industry that will make your life one big party!" ;) Best wishes, Dien |
Joe Sugarman seminar...
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Awesome stuff! By the way, here's Joe Sugarman's ad for one of his seminars, for those who want to have a look... Joe Sugarman Seminar Ad http://www.infomarketingblog.com/joe...an-seminar-ad/ (Click on the image on that page to see it as a PDF, which is big-enough-to-read...) Best wishes! Dien |
Ingenious system - it would work for any local business!
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This would work for any local business! (And probably even some online ones too, though with word spreading locally...) Amazing system! Thanks for sharing! I didn't include Glenn's whole post, but you should read the whole post, since the second half is just as valuable as the first half... :) Best wishes, Dien |
Amber Gets 2 F-r-e-e Steaks At the Grocery Store
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One of my FAVORITE things about "Flirt Tipping" is that Silly things happen. You Control those crazy Results in an IMPORTANT Way, however. Because you are Giving Away money. Other people REACT in a POSITIVE WAY. A Perfect Example: While chatting with Amber she mentioned she got 2 Fr-e-e- Steaks at the grocery store. I Perked up. Cuz I too would like to get F-r-e-e Steaks. Asked for the details. And here is the Result. ======== ======== Amber says she was at her Local Grocery store. Told the cashier, "Wow, you have a famous Name. Jimmy Buffet, Jimmy Carter, Jimmy Falon." "Here's a Thank you Reward TIP for helping me Check out." And she Smiles Big and hands Jimmy a LOTTO ticket. They chit chat back and forth. Amber takes her shopping cart full of bags of food out to the car. Starts loading up the front seat. Glances up and here comes Jimmy RUNNING across the parking lot towards her. She'd forgotten her Strawberry ice-cream. Amber THANKS Jimmy. Gets home. In the bag with the IceCream he finds a Swordfish steak - with a 13.00 label on it. AND A Sirloin Steak with a 13.00 p-rice tag on it. Amber said she could Kick Herself for not giving Jimmy a 2nd LOTTO TICKET Reward in the parking lot. But she was SO STARTLED that he ran after her with her Ice Cream - she forgot. Thank You - Amber |
3 by 5 Thank You Note Plus LOTTO Ticket - The Waiter CRIES
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It Feels Good when you can make others Feel Good. ======== ======== Bob and I decided to have lunch at MamaMia's Italian Restaurant. The meatball sandwich was scrumptious and twice what I could eat ... and then some. Our waiter Ryan approached our table and asked if we'd like a box to take home. "Of course, it'll be dinner" we responded. In good waiter fashion Ryan asked ... "Would you like me to take it back and wrap it for you or, would you prefer me to bring the take-out boxes back here so you can package it yourself?" Up until now, I've never been asked that question by a waiter ... never. We both opted to have Ryan take care of it for us. While Ryan went back to the kitchen ... I pulled out my trusty pre-printed 'Thank You' cards and wrote ... Thank You ... for your professionalism and for your service. It is greatly apprectiated!" ... and signed it. When Ryan returned with our to-go boxes ... I handed him the 'Thank You' card ... and underneath I included a $1 scratcher ... worth thousands. As I handed the card to Ryan I said ... "It's not very often we get recognized for the little things we do to improve our service ... and what you did for us showed your true professionalism ... and we apprecitate it." Ryan came close to tears ... really ... and when I asked what he would buy first if he won thousands ... his eyes shot up in both directions ... blinking to hold back tears ... (we could see how much he appreciated the recognition) then finally collected himself enough to say ... "I'd probably pay my rent up ... for a year!" When I returned a couple of days later and called him by name ... he was quite surprised ... and impressed ... "Hey Honey, that scratcher you gave me ... I won a buck!" And he was excited! Thanks Glenn ... for the fun this is ... and the tremendous impact it has on people's lives. |
Flirt Tipping Leads to Meeting w/32 Million Dollar Man
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Our Advice to Coaching clients is: a - Practice Flirt Tipping with 1.00 LOTTO Tickets and 1.00 Bills b - TELL me what happens c - I'll TELL you when you are Getting Close. So You can Change LOCATIONS and you can Start Attracting Extra Cash from your prospective customers. EXAMPLE of How this works: IF the client Sells Wgt Loss - Hang Out at StarBucks and LOTTO Tip the gals at the counter... IN FRONT of other patrons. (EDITORS NOTE - Not making this up. Just had a Health/Fitness/Wgt Loss Biz owner FIND and Make an appointment with an overwgt Prospect at his local Starbucks. LOCATION - In a Expensive part of town.) But Sometimes the Golden Rule POWER of Reciprocity KICKS in and Surprises You and me both. LIKE SO - ======= ======= How Ron Flirt Tipping His Way to a 32 Million Dollar Prospect. Here's the story as my Realtor Client - Ron - told it to me. #1 - One of Ron's Neighbors Did him a big Favor. So he treated him to lunch. #2 - Ron -- Lotto Flirt Tipped -- The waitress all thru the meal. Explained to the CURIOUS Neighbor - that he used Flirt Tipping during meals with clients to get leads, referrals, find new business opportunities.. And he got in the Habit of Doing it for Every meal because he has gotten used to VIP Level Service. #3 - Ron's Neighbor called the next day and asked, "Will you teach my Wife your Lotto Ticket Flirt System? She owns a Vitamin Store and wants to use it to bring in new members." #4 - Ron says, "Sure. But on the way - THE WIFE - Asked to stop off at a Tag and Title Office to pick up tags to her new car. #5 - To Be Polite - Ron Parks next to his neighbors and goes into the Car Title Office too. #6 - Sits down and listens. EUREKA. The guy who runs the Title Company OWNS the entire building. That same guy is in the process of selling one of his houses. #7 - And The Title Guy INTRODUCES the man he is helping thru the paper work to buy a new - Antique Car. A - "This is Al - He collects cars. About 44 of them so far." #8 - EEEEK. And it is casually mentioned that "Al" owns 32 apt complexes, has thousands of rental units. And Buys and sells houses to boot. Thanks, Glenn |
Guess What Happens When You FLIRT TIP a Bank Teller?
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When I created my Mastermind Network I had no idea how valuable it would be. Or that local biz owners would refer us to other countries. Flirt tipping allows us to Tap into the Brains of folks all over the world for new ideas. In this FLIRT TIP Testimonial We Learned How to Get Favors from Bank Tellers. I personally have tested this in front of a bank manager. GULP. (Just happened. Not my ideal situation.) The Bank Manager said "No" to tipping with dollars. "Ok" to tipping the teller with a LOTTO ticket. ======= ======= Gary Thinks of this as Paying-It-Forward. Which is True. But notice how he FLIRTED with the Bank Teller too? A Double Barrel effect. ====== ====== Here's a pay it forward testimonial for you. My ATM(automatic teller machine) was out of munny, so by the time I got to the bank in the supermarket to make a withdraw, it was closed. So I went to their ATM and withdrew $20's but I needed them exchanged to $10's. I go to the service desk and ask if I can exchange my $600 in $20 for $600 in $10's. The guy at the customer service desk was reading a magazine and acted like I was bothering him and said all of the $10's are in the registers. So I leave and go to the bank down the street, not know what to expect since I don't have an account there. I get up to the outside teller window and put a LOTTO ticket in the tube and send it. After a few minutes the teller is looking at me grinning and asks if thats mine. I say, "it was but its your now" I tell her that I don't have an account there but ask if I can make an exchange with the munny, she agrees to it not being a problem. We exchange munny, she says have a good day, and I say "I hope you win $500", she laughs, says thanks and I drive off. I think I made her day, she looked a little grumpy when I pulled up. Gary |
Realtor Uses Flirt Tipping to Get A Pretty Cashiers Ph #
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As You Know, as Small Biz Owners, us little guys can't afford to have our marketing or advertising FAIL. So Testing in niches is vital. And Testing Fast and Free is key. In the same way, ***Flirt Tipping To Make Money*** only Helps you find good prospects IF YOU Flirt Tip in the Right Location. An Example: Got a Coaching client we helped Make a Fast Start with 41,000.00 Gross Sales in a Business Opportunity. He is looking for Prospects who will order a 2000.00 Educational Product. Greg has reached a Point in His Flirt Tipping where he is Consistently getting Rapport with Waitresses and Clerks and Cashiers where he shops. But Although Greg is successful in: Fast Food Restaurants, Smoothie Stores, Sandwich Shops. He is not yet spending TIME in LOCATIONS where affluent Prospects hang out. Vegetarian Restaurants - with a parking lot full of BMW, SUV, Mercedes Nordstrom Department Stores UpScale Dog Apparel and Home Made Treat Shops ---------------- ---------------- DIRECTIONS for Flirt-Tipping-for-Profit in PRICEY RESTAURANTS. Step I - Buy 25 - 1.00 Instant Scratch off LOTTO TICKETS Step II - Take a Shower, Shave and Wear Clean Duds. Step III - Watch what other Restaurant Patrons are wearing and Imitate that. Step IV - Order a Cup of Soup. Or Chili. Or Onion Rings - something cheap. Step V - Spend the 25 LOTTO Tickets on your waitress and her Co-Horts. They won't care if your order is 7 bucks if you are ENTERTAINING them with LOTTO tickets all thru the meal. Flirt tip like crazy. Publicly. In front of affluent patrons. Step VI - Come Back and do it again. ASK your fellow Diners - in line. Or while waiting for a table. "Beautiful Lamborgini outside - where do you get it detailed?" Step VII - Wait until they ASK about you. Then you pull out your "GREED PAGE" Of house Flipping Deals we put together. Affluent folks like to keep their money moving. Invested. You WILL Find Investors and Deals. Here Is How We Know Greg Is READY for Richer --Flirt Tip-- Locations. ======== ======== How a Young Realtor LOTTO Flirt Tips To Get Ph#'s and Dates With Pretty Women My Outline of Greg's Flirt Tip Tale. Beautiful Latino Gas Station Clerk. Lotto ticket #1 - And Greg says, "What will you do when you WIN?" Day Two - LOTTO Ticket and he asks, "What are you going to BUY First If You WIN? Day Three - LOTTO Ticket and says, "Where are you going to spend all your WINNINGS? Greg says Eve tells him she has a son. She is 26 yrs Old. Divorced. Bad Boyfriend she just dumped - He wanted her to dance at a Strip Club. Greg Finds out Eve Likes to Rock Climb. ====== ====== RESULT - Soon Eve is touching Greg on the arm. Shortly after the arm touches. Eve gives him her phone #. It took Greg Five Visits and 5 LOTTO Tickets to Create Deep trust btwn himself and Eve so she felt comfy enough to share her home phone # and ASK him to call her. Which is a Miracle - Considering the way Eve has been treated by other men in her life. Greg can now use his TRUST BUILDING Skills to attract clients. Thanks, Glenn |
How Honey Used LOTTO TIPPING to Sell 4 RV's
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You wouldn't Think "FLIRT & Grow Richer" Stories about Flirt Tipping Your Waitress with LOTTO Tickets and 1.00 Bills would have anything to do with Selling. But. The exact same Flirt Strategy that gets you Fantastic Service from your waitress. Turns Strangers into "Friends" in a sales situation. You Want Proof? Okley Dokely. ======== ======== Dear Glenn, Yes, I've been reading them ...(The Ezines) and so you know ... 95% of the Guru's that have my email ... seldom if ever get read ... yet, I read every one of yours because ... they work ... at least the ones I incorporate. Five weeks ago I went to work on a RV Lot. Started with about 25 RV's in inventory, (Travel Trailers, 5th Wheels, Motorhomes), and it was slow going at first. Then I was 'reminded' of the Magical $1 Scratchers. I purchase five a day and most days I'm able to give them all away to prospective RV buyers. I've been giving them to these prospective buyers as they arrive at the Sales Door 'Just Looking' for an RV. Before we get very far along, I hand one of them, (usually husband/wife or some variation of), as scratcher and say ... "This is for YOU! My way of saying 'Thank You' for coming to visit our dealership and look at RV's. Maybe you'll get Lucky!" "Oh, maybe I will get lucky" they say excitedly. And I'm unlike most RV salespeople. I let them look on their own ... I hoover nearby, yet I do my best to just let them look and touch ... and ocassionally I'll stick my head in the door and see if they are OK. Usually they'll ask a question or two ... then back to "Just Looking." No pressure, no 'Salesman Hype' ... just a friendly smile. I know when they see a floorplan they like and the price fits within their budget, they'll make an offer. Then we go to work to protect 'Gross'. In the last week we've sold three coaches and have an offer coming on a fourth. I'm damn near out of inventory and already making plans to look elsewhere for income because ... if you don't have it ... you can't sell it ... at least RV's. Thanks, Honey |
How Craig Got a Real Estate Investor to BUY Him Lunch
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When I First Started Looking for Marketing Clients I attended: Toastmasters Clubs Lions Club Meetings Chamber of Commerce BNI Groups With the Exception of the Restaurant Owner who HOSTS the meetings you will not find Affluent Biz Owners there very often. NOW... I Do F-r-e-e Coaching for Small Biz Owners WHO PASS A Golden Rule Test. Find Clients - BY REFERRAL ONLY. Like Craig Below - Who has Obviously benefitted from our Flirt Tip To Attract Prospects Systems... ========= ========= CRAIG Shared THIS Flirt Tipping with LOTTO Tickets Story - Craig told us how he got a Real Estate Investor to B*uy Him Lunch - 3 times - so far... - Craig tells me he was chatting with Bart-the-ski-enthusiast at Church. Craig doesn't ski. Bart invited him to join a group to go skiing. Bart Said, "No Thanks. I don't ski." Bart said, "Well at least come to lunch. A bunch of us are Planning our ski weekend. You have to Eat, right?" Craig said, "Ok, Fine." Craig says he got to the Restaurant LATE. When he got to the banquet room he saw a bunch of WELL Dressed Strangers there looking at him. So he told Bart, "I'll be right back. Gotta wash my hands. Then you can Introduce me to everyone." And... Craig Quickly bought a bunch of LOTTO TICKETS at the gift shop. Then walked around the Restaurant AND back into the kitchen handing out LOTTO TICKETS to everyone. Saying, "We're CELEBRATING a Ski Weekend. Thanks for Making Sure we Don't Starve Back in The Banquet Room." He Repeated the same thing - Over and over and over as he gave away LOTTO TICKETS.. AND when he went back to the room. During Bart's Introductions to each skiing Buff in the room... Suddenly waiters and waitresses were there refilling glasses. Taking away empty Plates. Putting more rolls and crackers on the tables. I asked, "Craig, did you Keep LOTTO tipping?" Craig - "Yes I did. I got some Weird looks from all these strangers. But I had bought 50 Lotto Tickets - so I just kept peeling them off and smiling and Thanking the Wait Staff. ME - "Did the Manager show up? Craig - "Yes he did. But that wasn't the best part." "An older man came over to Bart and Asked to be Introduced to me. "The Older guy - Terry - turns out to be a Real Estate Investor who is buying and selling houses constantly." Me - "So you attracted the man with the MUNNY. Craig - "Yes I did. He really Liked the way the Lotto Tickets turned the Quiet lunch into a Party Atmosphere. And got the attention of the Boss." Me - "What happened next? Craig - "Well. Terry wanted to ask me advice about some of his deals. A House that had dropped in p*rice 3 times in 6 months. And there was too much noise. So he invited me to his home for lunch the following Weekend. Me - "That's great. Craig - "He keeps inviting me back too. Three weekends in a row. With a lady he hires to cook lunch and dinner - each time." Me - "Does it look like you might do some business together? Craig - Very Likely. He is doing a lot of Real Estate b*uying, s*elling, renting. And says he is always looking for Realtors he can depend on to help out." Me - "Fantastic. Keep me in The Loop, please. Thanks, Glenn |
FLIRT TIPPED Hot Blonde Makes Freaky *KISSY* Noises
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You know how when you FOCUS on One thing that Thing suddenly appears Everywhere? Well. I've got so many Stories flooding in for my new "Flirt & Grow Richer" book that I'm having to Re-write my book outline. Which is a good thing. With the culture and economy changing RAPIDLY under our feet we gotta be Flexible. This Just in From Caleb: =========== =========== Yo Glenn, Dude, I lost one of my 9 lives today cuz of your Lotto Ticket schtick. I'm walking down the sidewalk in a mall. Hot Blonde comes out of a store. She's got on these wild tights full of yellow and orange and red circles. BoyScout - that's me - I'm prepared. So I dig out a LOTTO ticket. Wave and Smile at her. Hand her the ticket. "Here is a Thank You Reward for wearing those tights. They remind me of my Mom's Flow..." ***KISS - KISS - KISS*** **Smoochy - Kissy - LIP Smacking NOISE. Swear to God Dude - before I could say the word "Flower" the hot blonde looked right at me. And Made Loud KISSY Noises. Then said in a loud LUVVY DUVVY Voice, "Oh You Pretty Boy. Don't Be Jealous." WHAT THE FREAK! She kept BABY talking - but I noticed she was Looking over my shoulder. She was Talking to her DOG in her car. Parked near the curb. WHEW! She had me Sweating in 10 seconds flat. Scared me bad. But While the dog was licking her face in her car she clued me in thru the opened door. I swear on a stack of Bibles this is true. She told me: "My pretty boy won't stay home. But he worries when I leave the car. You Made him Jealous. Did the man up-set you, huh, snookums?" Then She Covered "Snookums" eyes and Thanked me for the Lotto ticket and the compliment. And then she Drove away. Weird. You like Weird Stories, Glenn. So here you go. Thanks, Caleb |
How Joel Flirt Tips At Country Clubs to Land Physical Therapy Clients
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What we do, in a way, could be called "Mastermind Consulting." a - A prospect gets Referred to us b - Shares their situation c - I tell them a couple Case Studies from my Millionaire Interview archives that their problem triggers. d - We Mastermind some ways to Customize or adapt the ideas to fit Them. e - Then they go off and Take Action. f - OFTEN improving on or coming up with a completely New Strategy. Like Joel Did Below - ======== ======== Thank you Joel for sharing your Success Story. When we 1st Met by phone - Joel had just moved to Florida and needed new clients for his Physical Therapy Business. He got referred to Me. I suggested he imitate a Top Psychologist friend who Sells to Limping Golfers. She waits, in the pharmacy, next to a Hi End Country Club. SunBunrt, Golfers with blisters and a limp come in for drugs. She Holds up a Sign, "Drop 10 to 20 Strokes - Guaranteed." (She teaches them to Lower their STRESS while golfing and their Golf Score Drops too.) "GOOD IDEA" Joel says. He calls me back later to Report: a - He started hanging out in Golf Course Parking lots, The Hall outside the pro shop and the lobby of the Country Club. b - When he finds a Limping Golfer - he goes over and offers to TAKE AWAY THEIR PAIN. c - Joel reported he got some clients that way. But When I Called Joel 6 Months Later he told me This Success Story. Joel Discovered he could go to The Country Club Dining Room/Restaurant as a GUEST of his Golfing Clients - without paying the 10K yearly fee. He LOTTO Tipped his Waitress to get Great Service. And - son of a gun - When friends of the client he is Sitting with come over to chat WHILE JOEL is Handing out LOTTO TICKETS over and over to waiters and waitresses. They ask, "Who is this? What do YOU Do young man?" His Physical Therapy Client ENDORSES Him Enthusiastically and Joel makes Appointments each time he is a Guest at Two Different country clubs. I Congratulated him. Very Innovative LOTTO TICKET Strategy! |
LOTTO FLIRT Tipping At a Networking Meeting = $200+
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"Flirt And Grow Richer" - Flirt Tipping does not always get you Immediate Results. What I mean is: a - We've flirt tipped the waitress and gotten nothing back but a Smile. No extra food. Not better Service. Nothing. (Editors Note - In Fact - This actually happened to me. After getting Fantastic service at restaurants for years - I Found a DEAD SPOT. A Restaurant where IN SPITE of my lotto tipping the waiter and waitress and even the cooks - I got Nothing back. Not even better Service. Even when the cook won FIFTY BUCKS and came out to see me. Did I get More food? NOPE. I am Hungry. The amount of food you get in Restaurants is less and less. So I don't eat there anymore. I go where they FEED Me Better.) b - When you Flirt Tip a Cashier at Wal-Mart - you don't Expect to see any Quick Reward. c - However... If you shop or eat or visit the same stores over and over you will find that you Begin to STAND OUT as a good guy - or a VIP Gal --- in the minds of the staffers. And FUN things happen. d - Paying-It Forward via LOTTO or 1.00 Bill Flirt Tipping is a GREAT HABIT to get into... Why? You are helping people. You are having fun. You are practicing your People Skills. My Point? Be Patient. Keep Going. Don't give up. Plus anyone who emails ME with Lotto ticket Problems - I am happy to share Flirt for moolah tips from around the world - with you. Obviously - for the book - I've chosen the best Testimonials and Case Studies. Not the plain - boring - vanilla kind. So. Expect that your LOTTO Tipping will not have the same impact wherever you go. This is Real Life. Not the movies. Persist. Don't quit. You Will Get Rewarded. ======= ======= Flirt Tipping At a Business Networking Meeting Got Harry Surprise Results - After doing a Handwriting Analysis for one of Harry's New Painters he told me this LOTTO TIPPING Story. Harry is a Paint Contractor - goes to a local Networking Event weekly but has never made a dime from it. A Married lady he met there drove up to a meeting in a new White SUV. He asked and she told him she had just made Diamond Level at her Skin Care Biz. And one of the perks is a new car. I - So The Following week Harry got to the meeting in the Banquet Room of a local bank EARLY. II - Put a 8 by 10 Sheet with a INSTANT LOTTO Ticket Stapled to each page - at each chair around the table. ----------------------------- CONGRATULATIONS KAREN. We Always Knew You Were a DIAMOND. Congrats on winning a New Car. ----------------------------- III - Karen was late. Took all the wind out of my sails. Cuz everybody put their LOTTO Tickets and pages away. And Karen Brought her 5 year old son to the meeting. On her lap - he was fidgeting. IV - While the -- Yada Yada Yak Yak -- was going on I pulled a Blank Page out - Folded it into a Rose. V - Gave him a sheet. And Taught him how to Fold Paper Roses too. I had a Yellow HighLighter - so we made YELLOW ROSES. VI - Karen is going, "THANK YOU" - over the kids head while we did roses together. ========== RESULT? Afterwards all the small business owners at the Networking Meeting came over to Congratulate Karen. Afterwards 2 came over to say, "I Won a Buck. Thanks for the LOTTO tickets. And Karen Gave me one of her Gold Trim Leather Containers full of Skin Care Products - worth 295.00 (I looked it up on the company website.) And the Network Meeting Leader - Who'd Ignored me - asked If I'd like to do a 5 Minute Presentation to the group. Which he normally charges 100 bucks for. So I did ok at a cost of only 15 Lotto tickets. Thanks, Harry |
Patricks Fiance Flirt Tipped Their Waiter & got a F-r-e-e- Burger
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One of the Reasons why I am sharing these ideas in a book to be sold on Amazon, Kindle is that very seldom do you find a Fun idea that ALWAYS WORKS. No matter what. You Get Something Back. You may have to Be PATIENT and HAVE FAITH. Because the Benefits are hidden sometimes. Temporarily. BUT - Whenever you Flirt with munny - Give-to-Get - You Get Something Back. ***You Feel Good about yourself. ***You Help your waiters and Cashiers. ***You Start a New And Powerful HABIT - Thanking and Rewarding people around you. Always Always Always - this part of "Flirting-with-moolah" never fails. It's about You. How it makes YOU FEEL Better. And as Dale Carnegie says in his book, "Win Friends and Influence People" The only person You have the power to Change is YOU. So Improve YOURSELF. Make yourself More Positive and you INFLUENCE others around you to Be Positive Back. You Will Become More Powerful. Lotto tipping is helping others WHILE you also APPLY the Golden Rule of Reciprocity. (EDITORS NOTE - Robert Cialdini - says in his book "Influence" that *the Golden Rule of Reciprocity* is the only Persuasion Principle shared by 100% of the Cultures on earth.) ======== ======== Patrick-over the phone. Patrick & Fiance Pull Into The Drive-Thru Lane of a Fast Food Restaurant. They Ordered their food. Handed the guy at the window a lotto ticket. (Pulled into the parking lot cuz their HOT FOOD ORDER was not ready.) I - The Guy at the window comes out smiling with their food. And an Extra Burger. II - The Fiance Thanks him and hands him another LOTTO ticket. The Burger joint guy says, "Wait there a second." Literally RUNS back into the restaurant. Comes out and hands them an Entire Sheet of Discount Coupons - worth btwn 20 and 30 bucks in food savings. Patrick says they don't even eat at this place. So his fiancé is taking the coupons to work to hand out to her team. Told to Glenn by Patrick (EDITORS NOTE - Doesn't always happen. But This time FLIRT TIPPING w/2 LOTTO Tickets resulted in a F-r-e-e Burger And 20 bucks worth of discount coupons.) |
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Eric Flirt Tips Cooks w/LED IceCubes - Refers Himself To a Party
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======= I called Eric in Ohio to FIND OUT what happened when he gave away FLASH CUBES to the cooks in the kitchen. Eric's Phone Report - "I bought a dozen Flashing IceCubes - cheap at a buck each - to stick into my kids Snowmen - by the road. "Except no snow this winter. "So While a Realtor friend sat down at a local restaurant I told him, "I'll be right back." And I just walked back into the kitchen. Yelled, "Happy New Year" - to all the cooks and helpers. Started handing out ONE Plastic ICE CUBE Each." "Stick out your hand... "Stick out your hand... "Here's a Flashing iceCube for you... No Reaction - except to get Puzzled Looks. Until one little black haired girl chopping up Lettuce and Tomatoes for salads held up a WET HAND... And her Ice Cube Started FLASHING LIKE CRAZY - Red, Green, Blue. THEN there was a Lot of Excitement as I handed them out. I Ran Out of Ice Cubes and had to Hand out LOTTO tickets to the last 3 cooks and helpers. THE BIG BOSS and The Managers didn't say a word. But Just Watched as I Thanked and Rewarded their kitchen team. Crazy what happened next. The lady manager of the Restaurant came over to SHAKE My Hand and say "Thanks, Anything you need... The Guy who runs the whole place - Sports Bar, Take-out and Restaurant came over too. And fantastic service. Plus it SEEMED like all the waiters and waitresses and restaurant people who walked by out table Grinned and waved. Paul The Realtor/Investor - kept asking, "What did you do?" I said, "I tipped all the cooks." Funny. Paul and I both ordered onion rings. I got TWICE as many as he did. Paul says, "Oh, I see." BOTTOM LINE - I got an Invite from Paul to come to his house for a party. And we may do some business together. |
Robert Flirt Tips The Cashier & Cook For Family Pizza Night
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===== TESTIMONIAL from Robert - Hey Glenn, Before I go off to bed I wanted to tell you my testimonial. As you know I was talking to you on the phone when I bought my lotto tickets that I may be a blessing to others. Well I had given 2 out at my favorite Starbucks and they were so thankful for the gesture. That just made me feel so good. That alone was awesome. But what happen next time I did it was just simply incredible as it reflected how quickly God blesses us for being a blessing. So Wednesday is pizza night for the family so we always grab a couple of pizzas at our local pizza chain. This time after I ordered I thanked the cashier and cook of our pizza with a lotto card. They were so thankful. When I returned to grab my pizza they gave me 2 free large marinara sauces could be at least $1.50 each so I would say that was a quick $3 return. I am so excited for tomorrow to see who else I may be a blessing to. Thanks so much for introducing this to me. Everyone wins when you become the blessing. Thanks Robert |
Why Drakes Waitress Forgot How to Do The Math on His Bill
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====== Drakes Phone Testimonial - Drake told me he - After reading some of our Ezine Back Issues how it suddenly made sense to him to Tip the chef. So he went back into the kitchen after he was shown to a seat. Yelled, "Happy New Year." "I hope you guys win THOUSANDS of D*OLLARS." And handed out 4 - 1.00 Scratch off lotto tickets to the cooks. AND Gave his waitress one too. Drake was stunned when he got a bill for 5.81 instead of 11 Bucks for lunch. His waitress Suddenly forgot how to add and subtract. NOBODY Thanks and Rewards these folks so they Tried to THANK Drake BACK. Thanks, Glenn |
Robert Uses Flirt Tipping at The Printer
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======== ROBERTS TESTIMONIAL - with his written permission - (I did change his name - of course.) Hey Glenn, Sir it has been amazing experiencing the joy that people get to receive an unexpected gift. What makes it even more awesome is it's from a stranger. But the receiving part for me doesn't stop there I am receiving 10 fold returns on my giving. So today I need to get some copies made 16 pages I meant black and white copies but the store employee made me 16 color prints. I am sure this was a mistake but she decided to just give me the copies and only charge me the price for black and white. Here is the difference $.10/page BW copies compared to $.59/page Color that is 10x the lottery tickets I have been giving. As a thank you reward to the employee I give her a lotto ticket. I hope she won some money. Thanks so much Glenn my life is changing right in front of me. Robert |
Network Marketer Takes Client to Lunch & FLIRT TIPS In Front of Him
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========= How Robert is using LOTTO Ticket Flirt Tipping to Build his MLM Business Step I - Robert got 25.00 worth of 1.00 LOTTO tickets Step II - Invited a Prospect to join him for lunch at ________ Restaurant in Georgia. Step III - After they were seated Robert turned to his prospect and said, "Follow me and Watch This!" Step IV - Without asking PERMISSION Robert walked thru the double swinging doors into the kitchen. Spotted 3 men and 1 woman CHEFS. Step V - In a Loud VOICE said, "Happy New Year. I want to THANK You and REWARD you for Doing Such a Great Job Cooking my Food. Step VI - And He walked up and down the VERY SLIPPERY FLOOR (Robert said OSHA would Have a heart attack about the Slimey - slippery cement floor) and SMILED BIG, shook hands And Gave each cook - 2 LOTTO tickets saying, "I hope you WIN THOUSANDS." Step VII - Then Robert Turned and Went Back to his table - Gave HALF of his remaining LOTTO tickets to his Guest And said, "Whenever I hand a LOTTO ticket to a waitress - YOU FOLLOW and Give her one too, OK?" In The Following 30 Minutes they met: 3 Smiling Waitresses who each GOT LOTTO tickets. The MANAGER brought them butter. And every single staffer in the place SMILED and Said "HI" when they walked past Roberts Table. RESULT? #1 - Robert showed his bill to his Guest. The waitress added Wrong and gave him a 5.00 DISCOUNT. #2 - A Grinning Chef Came out to Thank Robert - he won 2 bucks #3 - Roberts Guest Said, "WOW, I want to work with you!" And signed up as a Distributor. Thanks, Glenn Osborn |
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