I think SOME of it has needed to be stated for a long time but, Pete, I think you could have phrased some of less harshly. It's obvious Joe has expression problems (which he didn't always have to this degree so put 2 and 2 together). Therefore, it would seem that we could be a bit more understanding.

I'm sure your intentions were the best, Pete, because you're not normally a hostile person. Perhaps a lot of us (me included sometimes) need to be more aware of things, helpful, and a bit less judgemental.

Best to all,

Sandi Bowman