Stefan,
I've been a member for 2-3 years. I don't worry about referring anyone! In fact, I really could care less.
What I like about InstantBuzz is that it allows you to test your headlines 'til the cows come home.

Doesn't take long to figure out what works, and what doesn't.
The thing I like about IB is, if you're headline draws the clicks, you're gonna make some money.. IF you've got a good webpage to follow that headline up with.
Pete