Unfortunately confidence cannot be bought off the shelf.

It has to be developed and nurtured.

Generally speaking there are very few naturally 'confident' people and in many of these cases this confidence borders on arrogance!

You can be certain that many of the 'super confident' people that you see today have moments and indeed months of self-doubt etc.

Here's a thought...

In the land of the blind the one-eyed-man is king.

To be confident you have to feel that you are equal to or superior to (not something I particularly like ) your target audience/ your peers/ your fellow humans etc.

No matter how low you feel at the moment, how broke you are, how lonely you are, I can guarantee that there is somebody worse off than you just now.

Find this person.

It could be an old person, young, disabled, homeless or whatever and help them.

Maybe just talk to them.

To them you have everything. Their confidence is low.

You can help.

Trust me.

I have confidence in you.

Jim.