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Old December 14, 2016, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted by MVc5hws View Post
Thanks for the offer Gordon, I'll be in touch.

1- Proof of concept. 2 hour lunch at Mall Foodcourt staring at people from different angles.
2- Visit stores at mall with intent to distract/influence in some way, smile or laugh perhaps
3- Enter a state of Total Conscious Awareness, know what you are doing and OBSERVE others, can you figure out their state of mind from just body language
4- Engage with intent, mirror, lead, pace
5- Practice with escalating demands, or more complicated responses
6- Take copious notes on what and why you are doing what you do
7- Have a purpose

Those are the thumbnail sketches of 7 Steps to Fascination

First, you have to convince yourself that people can be communicated with via sight only (don't stare at the wrong person too long, he'll shoot you)

Once you have proof, for yourself, it is like any sport or activity; structured practice with measurable goals, and a tracking method.

Gordon
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