Thanks Dien,
Joey Rescues His Relationship with a Thank You Note
Glenn,
I forgot how I came across Your Free Ezine site, but I read it, tried it, and reaped the benefits!
My fiancee and I have a good relationship, but I know I'm not as emotionally
satisfying as she needs. We don't argue all the time, but we don't snuggle all the
time either...
She had been mad at me for a couple of days straight, and you know how
stressful that can be. Then I remembered some of the techniques you used. Up
until that point, I wanted to take you up on your offer, but I didn't know how I
was going to do it.
So, one morning she was going to drive me to work, and I happened to get
in the car a few minutes before her. That was my oppurtunity!
I picked up an old piece of junk mail and began to write something like this
on the back of it:
"Thank you, (Name Here), for sticking with me when even I don't know why
you do it. Thank you for caring for me and about me when I don't seem to
appreciate it. Thank you for changing my life in the most positive way. (And to
add a little about her kids from a previous marriage
Thank you for introducing
me to two works in progress that have taught me more than I ever could have
taught them...
She got in the car, and we had our normal arguing/conversating thing going
on all the way to work. We got there, and I said, "Pick me up at such and such
time." and handed her the junk mail face down. I got out the car and pointed at
the junk mail. She read it as I went in to work.
When I got off of work, she was so lovey-dovey, and she talked about how
she didn't know what she was going to do about us and how she thought I was
starting to dislike the kids, and blah blah blah... But the point is she felt a lot
better about our relationship.
I give her booster shots by bringing her (non-alcoholic) drinks when she's on
the computer. And I complement her endeavors more. All of this adds up to her
being happier in general which means I'm less stressed.
"You can use this in any of your marketing - Glenn."
Thanks so much,
Joey
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ACTION SUMMARY -
You might ask, "What does this have to do with "PAYING IT FORWARD"
Or Giving Away Munny or LOTTO ticket Tipping?
Well.
Saying "THANK YOU" Is Powerful. Especially because so few do it.
However.
A Written 3 by 5 Card THANK YOU is TEN TIMES more potent than
a verbal Thanks.
AND When you Give a THANK YOU REWARD to your clerk, cashier, barmaid,
waitress - Which Combines a Written 3 by 5 Card THANK YOU and a THANK
YOU REWARD in the form of a series of LOTTO tickets -- We can Tell you from EXPERIENCE it has 100 TIMES Greater impact.
Don't take our word.
TRY THIS for yourself.
Glenn