I've also noticed...
I like to (where possible) solve problems ONLY ONCE.
This is so ingrained in me, I ALMOST get frustrated when I must go food shopping -- like, "didn't I already buy food last week, I thought I SOLVED that whole buying food and EATING problem, ONCE!! -- You're saying I need to eat AGAIN?!?!"
I can't stand getting "trapped" by the same problem coming up over + over -- like being somehow "surprised" every month when a certain bill comes due.
But life (+ people) are not like that. They don't behave like robots. They make the same mistakes over and over again -- even though that makes no *** " SENSE " ***.
Things that don't make sense frustrate me! I try to hard to deal with things as they SHOULD be, not as they ARE!
And I keep thinking I SHOULD be able to solve problems ONCE, and be done with that problem FOREVER.
I wonder if any of you out there suffer from the same "syndrome."
-- TW
PS: It's like when the OJ verdict was read. Why were there two different reactions to that??? I STILL can't figure that one out! And yet -- there it was/is. An undeniable (if totally ILLOGICAL) reality.
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