Happy New Year,
Here's Why a BIG BLINDING SMILE is Like Walking up to a Woman
with a Big Bunch of Red Roses.
SHE Will Run Away from you.
Go ahead.
Try it. I've had several clients who didn't believe me.
A - Buy Roses - Walk up to a strange woman - try to give them away.
She runs.
B - Put on Your Best - Biggest Blinding Smile - walk towards women or men at the Mall. They will shy away. Back up. NOT look at you.
Why?
#1 - You aren't acting "Normal."
#2 - It's my Belief that every man, woman and Child has had 100's of people walk up to them with FLOWERS or a HUGE SMILE...
And WANT SOMETHING.
OR Deliver TERRIBLE NEWS.
So we run.
So What Might You Do Instead?
SITUATION I - You are nearby when a waitress, clerk, co-worker is ALREADY
Laughing at a joke.
Or perhaps FLIRTING with someone.
You Memorize Her Body Signal from the shoulders up.
Walk over close in her eye-sight-zone.
Mirror or send Exactly what she did back to her.
CASE Study #1 - I had a UK client Try This at a Fish & Chips Restaurant.
The Counter Girl
was Smiling at him and his mates.
And she Kept "Playing with her hair." Specifically he noticed her pushing her hair behind her ear with her left hand.
So.
Even though he had a crew cut... Stan did that too. He pushed invisible hair
behind his left ear with his left hand.
Stan said the Girl came out from behind the counter to BRING him
Salt and pepper and ketchup and mustard. So much that his mates began to Tease him that she was SWEET on him.
SITUATION II - The Girl or Guy You Like is Poker faced. Not Smiling.
Not Happy or Laughing.
You Point at her Hair or her Jewelry - Give her a SMILING THUMBS Up.
Or
You say, "I really LUV your butterfly necklace. (OR Tattoo) I've never seen
one like it."
THEN
You
Memorize
The Happy Smiling
Body Signal
Your Compliment just created.
And
You Send it back to her (or him)
Easily done.
You Imitate what SHE did in reaction to your compliment.
UNLIKE what happens When you SCARE People with a HUGE SMILE.
This Unconscious Body Signal SMILING Emotion
goes right thru all of people's Defenses.
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ACTION SUMMARY -
So.
To SAFELY SMILE at Strangers.
To Safely Compliment the opposite sex without Negative Side Effects.
You can Create Rapport and Trust in Total
Strangers - without Risk of Making a MISTAKE.
Because all of this is Covert, hidden, INVISIBLE - isn't it?
And
Because this is how our Body Signal Communication ALREADY works
all we've done here is CLUE You in to
some
SECRETS your Unconscious Mind
HAS NOT SHARED with you.
Thanks & Happy New YEar,
Glenn Osborn
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