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Old July 22, 2009, 01:57 AM
MichaelRoss
 
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Default Re: TOTALLY SUDDEN (+ troublesome) mindset shift - anyone else?

TW,

See if'n you can find some articles of his to get a deeper gist of his approach.

I do Not mean to set your Goals low. Have goals as lofty as you like. And know there is Always a way to make it, sell it, create it, achieve it, do it, etc. It's not a question of the desired outcome but about the emotional stake you place in your efforts to obtain the desired outcome.

Think of Agent Smith fighting Neo in the 2nd Matrix. Where Neo is fighting 30 agents. In the end Neo flies away leaving Smith to look on. Smith doesn't chuck a hissy fit in disappointment. He takes it in his stride and simple walks off. Sure he had a goal - destroy Neo - and it certainly Drove him, but he was not emotionally dependent on any one of his efforts working as is seen by his reaction when his efforts fail.

I find it hard to write precisely what I Mean in this regard. But you'll understand it some point of your own accord. In the mean time I think Jacques stuff you'll find interesting.

Michael Ross
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