I really appreciate all the care you all have taken to answer & send some good 'ol fashioned advice my way!

(Family breakup forces me to be mom & pop right now, so but I may go back to his city or may not...unknown at this time. Time will tell... ) Right now it's just really important that I meet the bills, which happy to say I AM at least doing! \0/

Thanks for everything - your advice means alot!