unpinkpanther
April 27, 2017, 08:38 AM
...years of "Flitdabbling" brought me to THIS very site!
Which brings up a question: do we help people by showing them possible shortcuts to their stated goals?
Or should we just sit by and watch them flitdabble till they finally get tired of it and stumble on the answers themselves?
I try coaching and always find it interesting when people state a need for help and then REJECT anything that doesn't look like the "help" they WANT, even if you're offering what they really NEED.
C'est la vie...
So, I'm not assuming anything. I'm going to try to answer his questions best I can. Until about 12 years ago, I was a Flitdabbler. I spent a lifetime flitting and dabbling, and I can either curse my ADHD or thank it, which I choose to do, for meeting so many interesting people and experiencing so many different types of work, business and lifestyles.
So thanks ADD/ADHD.
Gordon
Which brings up a question: do we help people by showing them possible shortcuts to their stated goals?
Or should we just sit by and watch them flitdabble till they finally get tired of it and stumble on the answers themselves?
I try coaching and always find it interesting when people state a need for help and then REJECT anything that doesn't look like the "help" they WANT, even if you're offering what they really NEED.
C'est la vie...
So, I'm not assuming anything. I'm going to try to answer his questions best I can. Until about 12 years ago, I was a Flitdabbler. I spent a lifetime flitting and dabbling, and I can either curse my ADHD or thank it, which I choose to do, for meeting so many interesting people and experiencing so many different types of work, business and lifestyles.
So thanks ADD/ADHD.
Gordon
