..."so let me ask you - what trading sources would you recommend?
Thanks in advance."

In books I like Mark Douglas's Trading in the Zone, it covers the real problem in learning to day trade which is 90% psychological.

also, someone I have personal experience with has a new day trading site
www.daytradingforincome.com he is actually offering training for emini's only and has just opened (but he has been trading/teaching for a long time)....however, He does not teach trading for NASDAQ or NYSE...
His training is almost like tutoring which many people need to get good at it..

The CME (chicago Mercantile Exchange) has online tutorials which are excellent and free. Personally I bought many day trading ebooks over the years, but could never get of the ground with just those books. I did like the Master Trader ebook which is widely available, author/trader is Jans.

A forum for trading I like is ASKATRADER.com which deals in all types of trading instruments (S&P eminis, stocks, etc).....hope that helps!