TW, I think you need to study some psychology. While it's true no one (male or female) really understands the mind and motivations of another...even if they're shared voluntarily because most folks have no idea of their own motivations. They hide the truth because they don't have the guts to face their own frailties as mere human beings. This is not a gender thing...it is the way it is.

As for the 'horrible truth' that's hogwash. What woman can't accept the fact that any man lusts after anything attractive when he's in the mood. What civilized men do about it is what divides them from the mere reactive uncivilized types. What's so horrid about admitting we are the animals that God or nature intended us to be? Reality doesn't hurt...it frees us to use our minds and bodies to higher purposes.

Sandi Bowman