Should you set your goals high, or a bit lower?

I've read two views....

Should you go for "realistic", "achievable," "attainable" goals? That is, should you set your goals just to those that you know you can reach?

Or should you "shoot for the moon," "go for gold," "reach for the top"? That is, should you set high goals, set your goal for what you *really* want, rather than be satisfied settling for less? (Even though you might not be not sure that you can achieve it....)

I've seen different books which recommend each approach....

Looking for comments on what you think about this question....

But first, let me share with you some of my thoughts.... I think some people are afraid to aim too high. Maybe they are afraid of the feeling of failure, or perhaps afraid of criticism, or afraid of looking like a fool....

I think you have to get over these kind of feelings, though, if you are really going to make it to the top....

If you have an opinion on this, even a personal experience or something you've heard of, please post it and we'll discuss.... I think it's a burning issue which is very important and helpful.

Thanks,

Dien