What women/men want

Originally Posted by Sandi Bowman

As for the 'horrible truth' that's hogwash. What woman can't accept the fact that any man lusts after anything attractive when he's in the mood. What civilized men do about it is what divides them from the mere reactive uncivilized types. What's so horrid about admitting we are the animals that God or nature intended us to be? Reality doesn't hurt...it frees us to use our minds and bodies to higher purposes.

I'm glad you feel that way. You may not (or maybe you do) realize how deep the 'problem' is (I put the word problem in quotes advisedly). I think the 'problem' is much deeper than most women realize. That's why I say the 'movie' could not be made -- the 'depths' would be revealed. When you say, "What civilized men do about it is what divides them from the mere reactive uncivilized types," I'm not sure you realize what a real (sometimes minute-by-minute) struggle it is. I think you think you know -- but I don't think you really do. But of course there's no way for me to know that, for sure! (whew)

Maybe the movie really SHOULD be made -- that way we men will know for sure the truth is out, and we can see what women's reactions to it are.

That link I included about the cds on this topic show that the discussion is needed, overall. It's hard for men (in some cases) to express the whole dynamics, because it's VERY UNlike the dynamics of 'what women want,' and it's very "base." (embarrassing, confusing, powerful, semi-uncontrollable, etc.) The description of that info-product puts it very well -- better than I can.

-- TW